18+ only
Safety & community
We Just Met only works if everyone feels safe being found — and safe not being found. A few simple principles:
Adults only.
You must be 18 or over to use We Just Met, and notes must only be about people you believe are adults.
No photos of other people.
Notes are words only. Never photograph someone without their knowledge to find them. Your own photo is used only for private verification, and only you upload it.
Describe the moment, not the person’s private life.
No full names, workplaces, home addresses, phone numbers or anything that could identify or locate someone who hasn’t chosen to be found.
Take no for an answer.
If someone declines, or doesn’t reply, let it go. Don’t try to find them another way. Repeated or unwanted contact isn’t welcome here.
Keep it kind.
Nothing sexual, crude, abusive or mocking. Write the note you’d be happy for the other person — and their friends — to read.
Meeting up.
When you do connect, take it slowly. Meet somewhere public, tell a friend where you’re going, and arrange your own way home.
Reporting. Every note has a “Report this note” link. Notes that receive several reports are hidden automatically while they’re reviewed. If you’re ever in danger, contact the emergency services (999 or 112 in Ireland and the UK).